Or sometimes the words are spoken by the sufferer. We hear them saying things like, "Where was God when this was happening?" Or maybe, "Why would he allow such a thing to happen?" Or sometimes even "Why did God turn against me like this?" We are made uncomfortable when we hear words like these from the lips of the faithful. And we try to shush the sufferer, "You don't really mean that." Yes they do; they mean precisely that!
And it is OK. These aren't intellectual questions seeking factual answers; they are the desperate cries of a heart that is breaking. This is precisely the cry of David in Psalm 22:1-2.
1My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, so far from the words of my groaning?In his struggle and suffering, David feels that God has turned against him. He groans and God ignores him; he cries out, and God remains silent. Why has God forsaken him? Well the answer is, "God hasn't." God will act to revive and restore him. David is confident of that fact, and he gives God a “praise in prospect” in Psalm 22:22-23
2 O my God, I cry out by day, but you do not answer, by night, and am not silent.
22 I will declare your name to my brothers; in the congregation I will praise you.
23 You who fear the Lord, praise him! All you descendants of Jacob, honor him! Revere him, all you descendants of Israel!
He knows that he will again praise God, but right now David FEELS forsaken. And he expresses his true feelings to God without veneer or varnish. And he will not be shushed. God knows His heart, so there is no need for him to pretty up his words. He simply shares his feelings with God, and cries our for God to help.
The ability to be honest to God despite frustration and pain is called "faith." We like David's calm and serene faith expressed in Psalm 23, "Though I walk through valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil." Now that is real faith! Is it an accident that Psalm 23 follows Psalm 22. The faith of Psalm 22 is much more messy, but it is real faith as well. The heart that cries out to God in despair is a heart that cries out to God! Maybe the reason David was so faithful in expressing his praise is because he was also so honest in expressing his pain. We don't cry out to one who is not there; we don't ask for help from one who is impotent to give help.
The ultimate affirmation of David's desperate faith is that his words become the words of Jesus from the cross as he embraced our suffering and identified with us as sufferers. There will be times when our faith will turn desperate. God will seem silent; the pain and frustrations of life will seem as the arrows of the Almighty. When that happens, the only thing to do is to cry out our lament to the God. He hears and he cares... even when it feels as if He does not!






