There's an old joke of the successful Texas oil man who retires to his hometown in Oklahoma. The little church there is dominated by a rich man who gives the lion's share of the contribution and who in return always seems to get his way. Anytime anything was proposed that he didn't like, this "prominent member" would say, "Well, I've given a lot of money to this church, I and just think..." And sure enough, he would get his way. Finally, the old Texas oil man got tired of this routine. Just when the man was launching his, "I've given a lot of money" speech, the oil man interrupted him and asked, "Just how much money have you given here?" The man stammered, "Why do you want to know that?" He answered, "Cause I'm fixin' to buy you out!" And he did!
Unfortunately, this old joke is not so far fetched. It is common for "prominent members" of churches to believe that their prominence (money-given, services-rendered, time-spent, family connections or whatever) means they get to have their way. They expect that their needs or opinions will always outweigh all others. In 1 Corinthians 12, Paul seems to argue that just the opposite should be true; the parts of the body that are the weakest should be the ones of which the body should take special care—
Those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has combined the members of the body and has given greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other.
Paul seems to think that the “more prominent” parts of the body of Christ (whoever they may be) should go out of their way to take care of the less prominent parts (whoever they may be). Jesus has already bought us all out, and we should take care of all members of His body.
There is a difference between an organization and a family. In an organization, there is a hierarchy of importance. Those who contribute the most to the organization are valued the most. Well, the church isn’t an organization; it is a family. In a family, everyone is valuable just because they are part of the family. They may not perform as vital a function in the family as another person, but they are valuable simply because they are family. Daddy may be the breadwinner and the entire family depends directly upon him. At the same time, Baby doesn't contribute a single function to the family... except providing constant chaos. But who is the most important? Well, everyone in the family is! Pragmatically, it is Baby who will get the lion’s share of the family's attention because in a family, the one who needs the most attention is the one who gets the most attention.
We must make the church the kind of family where there are no prominent members or non-prominent members. We are family, and we must not allow ourselves to order ourselves based upon the hierarchy of an organization. We are God's family. And thus we are of equal value to God and thus to one another.




